Fraternus Squads

Before “men’s groups” there were men.

Raising up competent Catholic sons—and having meaningful brotherhood—doesn’t have to be a chore.  Fraternus Squads provide the space and tools to do what men were made to do.  

The world has displaced fatherhood & confused men.

As we watch the inevitable disorder and chaos that lost fatherhood causes, some men might be tempted to shrug, maybe laugh, and carry on as usual.  Real men, however, seek a change and learn to serve and lead as only they can. They do not leave the world orphaned.

WE CAN BE TOO BUSY AND TOO LAZY AT THE SAME TIME.

Too many men adopt a victim mentality about “the culture” taking our children. Few have more power to change the course of things than fathers. We do not have to passively allow the enemies of our souls to make the rules. We must act.

A Fraternus Mens Squad is something different.

A Fraternus Mens Squad starts with the truth about fatherhood. 

Good fathers order themselves, their households, and their communities toward their true end, which is God.  

a father hugging his daughters next to his wife

Fraternus Squads

7 Reasons Why Fraternus Mens Squads Will Work for You

Squads focus on building the local bonds that bring order and truth to life.

1. Easy to start and join

No institutional affiliation or formal structure required—just start with your men. Squads can meet anywhere, (homes, bonfires, etc.), and have the flexibility that helps them integrate with real life.

2. From friendship to Brotherhood

The purpose is to move beyond shallow pleasantries and into the brotherhood that was born at our baptisms, primarily by cultivating a local Catholic culture.

3. Real place and real people

You can’t join our online community because we don’t have one – no one does. Real community is local and in-the-flesh, meaning with Catholics near you. Stop trading in memes and outrage and be present and solve problems in your actual community.

4. Flexible without being squishy

Squads will provide the tools and resources to help you and your men bring order and maturity to households and communities, but in a way that allows for “freedom in the framework.”

5. Big Talk and thoughtful action

Squads aren’t just support groups; they help men gain the wisdom needed to take action and build. Escape “small talk” and have some Big Talk with the men that matter in your life.

6. Find the mentors you (and your son) need

We’ve been doing this for 17 years. The most important thing fathers can do for their sons is to identify the mentors his sons need to become a man.  

7. Pathway to forming a Fraternus Chapter

Squads help men construct the foundational fraternity that makes fathering and mentoring easier, potentially building up to a full Fraternus Chapter.

"Fraternus is forging young men that society today so desperately needs, and the brotherhood formed in Fraternus will be in my life forever."

Max, Fraternus Father and Brother

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Start a Mens Squad

It’s simple to get started. A Squad requires at least three men to form. Register yourself as the host and get a core group of at least two other men (over 18) to do the same.

Join a fraternus squad

Here’s what you’ll get for your $65 annual membership

  • The Ways of the Fathers, a 6-week experience that completely re-frames the problems with men and boys today—and the solutions. We guarantee it will be provocative, inspiring, and challenging.
  • A one year print subscription to the Fraternus flagship quarterly magazine, Sword&Spade.
  • Weekly meeting and conversation guidance to help you, your brothers, and your sons understand, discuss, and live the traditional seven virtues. 

  • Fraternus assessment tools for self-evaluation as well as how you’re doing with the most important people in your life (spouse, children, parents, and friends).
  • Weekly conversations with men “in the trenches” with full access to the Sword&Spade Podcast.  

Start a Squad

If you’ve already been invited by a squad leader, ask them for your join link.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can young men or a K-12 school be part of a Mens Squad?

Not exactly. Squads are for men 18 or older and are where brotherhood is solidified amongst the men. While it will certainly lead to engagement with younger men, we need the mature brotherhood of men first.

No. Unlike a Fraternus Chapter which is an apostolate of a parish, a Squad is a group of men subscribing and using materials privately and apart from particular institutions.

Yes. Many Chapters already have men’s Squads in their Chapter and these materials are designed to be used at all levels of Fraternus involvement.

It provides onboarding and training that Commanders and Chapters can use for men new to the Brotherhood, or for men needing to be refreshed on the ideas of Fraternus.

No. The Mens Squad materials are included in Fraternus membership.

Chapters will now have material for helping train and initiate new men into their Chapter. Men in Chapters will now also have an option to use alternative content to the Fraternus Book for existing (or forming) men’s squads within a Chapter. Men’s Squads can both exist as a part of a Chapter, and independent of a Chapter, but with the goal of having Men’s Squads serve as “training grounds” for future Chapters that smoothly orient and lead men into the fold of existing Chapters.

For Chapters receiving new men, they can initiate these new men using the new “The Ways of the Fathers” experience.

  1. This material could be covered at a time outside of Frat Night.
  2. Or, these men would participate in the games and meal, but break out to engage with the materials. The men would rejoin the rest of the Chapter for prayer after normal Squad Time finished.

After these men are ready to commit to the Chapter, and join the rest of the men, they can jump into the flow of the existing Men’s Squad. For Chapters with existing Men’s Squads, the provided Men’s Squad materials (based on S&S and LBB) can be used during normal Squad time.

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“This is an experience that elevates boys and young men to reach for virtue first. I can’t imagine a stronger opportunity for boys, young men, and fathers to grow in faith, virtue, and brotherhood. Thanks be to God for the great gift of Fraternus.”

Chris, Fraternus Father and Brother

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